Monday, 25 July 2016

Horrible, screaming dad

Suddenly, i realise that i've been such a monster. a terrible, screaming monster to my 2 kids.

today, i failed badly, i flared up badly, i lost control, and god, i hate myself for it.

in the biggest picture, they are just kids, 4 and 2 years old.

sherry is always whingy, being a girl, but she loves her daddy the most. today, i'm the worst daddy ever. i threw away 1 of her things in front of her.

whatever overcame me, i do not know.

i feel extremely bad, and i apologised to her immediately. and what made it worst is that sherry forgave me immediately. like immediately, no bad blood. she loves me unconditionally. i should do the same, i must do the same.

Saturday, 14 May 2016

Never ever say anything negative to your kids

Never ever say anything negative to your kids.
Never ever say that Sherry is a very rude girl to her face.
It achieves nothing, and in the end, nobody feels good about it.
She is just a little girl.

Monday, 25 April 2016

papa, next time i buy shirt for you

my 2 year old son, ethan, saw a hole in my tshirt. he looks very worried and keep saying, papa why got hole, papa why got hole. i didn't take it seriously and just told him got mouse bite.

than out of the blue, he said, next time i buy for you, now shopping close already next time i buy for you.

My sherry, also chipped in and say " i also want to buy for papa".

So after a long day's work, after a long day taking care of the kids, after a long day enduring sherry's whinges, the kids decided to wrap up the day by being so sweet.

Excuse me while I go find a piece of tissue.

havent' eat dinner

it's 1030pm, and i suddenly remembered i haven't eat dinner. lol. long day

Thought for the night.

came back from RC door to door to sell mother's day tickets.
can hear sherry's tantrums from 5 doors away.

shes full o tantrums these few days. guess she's growing up ba

well i didn't flare up or anything.
than i bring didi to his room, and leave sherry outside the hall.

time to bathe

a crying baby

my dear sherry can be such a whinger and crybaby sometimes, so much that it gets on your nerves lol.

she woke up from afternoon and keep whinging and whinging and crying and crying. basically just throw a fit, for no reason. lol.

well i didn't flare up or anything. just tell her that she dont have to go ikea if she dont want. (we are going to ikea) . gloomy weather, so indoor is the best.

Sunday, 24 April 2016

Papa can you bathe for me please

Today sherry ask me to bathe for her, and of cos I did.

And than I suddenly realise that I haven't bathe the kids for a very long time. I dont even know which toothbrush they are using.

I think I impose too much on myself ?